We, the family of Judith “Judy” Louise Harrell, are left to honor our wonderful Wife, Mother, Sister, and Grandmother in a few words (please forgive us if brevity isn’t our strong suit). While we don’t have her gift of prose we will attempt to capture her essence for those who weren’t lucky enough to know her.
Judy entered everlasting life with her Lord and Savior on Wednesday, February 5, 2025. We are grateful that He freed her from her Alzheimer’s ravaged earthly mind and body while she rested peacefully at her home in Caney City, Texas. Judy left her loving husband, six children, ten grandchildren, ten great grandchildren, her brother, several extended family members, and many friends behind to carry on her memory. She is no doubt rejoicing at being her spunky self again and thoroughly enjoying reconnecting with her parents, four grandchildren and many other relatives and friends who completed their own journeys before her.
Judy’s story began 86 years ago in Dahlgren, Illinois where she was born to her late parents, Francis “Frank” and Mildred Ewald. Eight years later they had the audacity to throw a precocious little brother, Michael “Mike” (Margareta) Ewald into the mix.
Judy married young and, being the good Catholic that she was, had four children in short order: Debbie, Scott, Lesa, and Todd. When that union didn’t work out, she found herself a “keeper” in James Harrell. Together they created the Harrell version of the “Brady Bunch” when they married just shy of 56 years ago, and his two daughters, Brenda and Bernice, completed our family. Thanks to Judy and Jim’s parenting we were raised as one big (mostly happy) family.
Our “who’s who” roster is a bit long, so we’ll forgive you if you skip over it. By the Grace of God (and our parents), we “kids” became adults and made our own ways in this world. Debbie (John) retired from the Army and became a bookkeeper; she gave Judy five grandkids and six great-grandkids. Scott (Donna) served in the Army, as well, and then worked his way up to Senior Molder in a cast iron foundry and gave Judy two grandkids and two great-grandkids. Lesa spared her grandkids to keep the numbers even. Brenda has served her community as a sought-after hair stylist for over 42 years and gave Judy four grandkids and two great-grandkids. Todd (Michelle) is a top-notch auto mechanic and gave her one grandson. Lastly Bernice (Dwayne) is a phenomenally successful domestic engineer who gave her two grandkids.
We remember Judy fondly like when she’d wake us up on school mornings doing a little jig while singing, “Wake up, wake up you sleepy heads; Jump up, jump up, jump outta bed!” She played us well because some of us did “jump outta bed” just to get her to stop! We also remember:
Most of our friends came to our house to play and when one of them found herself “expecting” in high school it was our mom that she came to and who calmed her and helped her tell her parents.
Judy was right-handed so she used a mirror to teach her “leftie” kids how to tie their shoes.
Ever the pragmatist, she told her dyslexic daughter that she “could always design windows if she couldn’t get it straightened out.”
We always knew she loved us…and are fairly sure she even liked us, too (most of the time!).
She raised her girls to be strong women…and gave her boys a loooonnngg leash!
She was a good, “meat and potatoes” cook and made the best homemade Peppermint Ice Cream!
She liked to clean; Saturday was “Cleaning Day” for the girls while the boys helped Dad outside.
She had a good sense of humor. Like when she laughed at herself early in her Alzheimer’s journey after she put an “extra zero” on the church donation check and had to get it back. (She taught Dad to write a check shortly after that!)
Her celebrity crush was John Wayne (we hope you finally get to meet him).
She loved Cookies-N-Cream Ice Cream, Peanut Brittle, Gingersnaps, Cinnamon Ball Candies and Popcorn.
We were blessed to have been (often unwilling) recipients of many pearls of wisdom from Judy, among them:
“If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.”
“Little minds use little words.”
“Once you know the truth you can’t lie to yourself anymore.”
“You don’t know what another person might be going through so don’t judge too harshly.”
We think that now she would tell us to love one another unconditionally, always do our best, and do something amazing while we still can. We will not say “Good-Bye” but rather “Until we are together again.” We love you!!
Judy will be honored with a service on April 22nd at 1:00PM at Mary Queen of Heaven Catholic Church; 2269 Co. Rd 1703; Malakoff, TX.
In lieu of flowers, please give generously to the Cure Alzheimer’s Fund “in memory of Judy Harrell” at https://curealz.org/outreach/in-memory/judy-harrell/ If life’s circumstances prevent you from giving of your riches, we ask that you give of your time and/or talent to a worthy cause of your choosing. If that is too much to ask, please perform a “Random Act of Kindness” for someone in need in memory of Judy.